Don’t take their responses personally.
They are usually “as a matter of fact” and many posters take it as being rude when they are only trying to respond to as many requests as possible.
DO NOT be argumentative regardless of what you think they are saying.
Just remember they are NOT required to even answer you.
Take their answer and or advice and leave it alone.
Being confrontational and argumentative will not help your cause.
~VegasMack